It’s not uncommon for families and friends to be separated by many miles and even many time zones. Even so, at some point in their lives, parents, grandparents or a loved one may require in-home care.
Flagstaff Business News’ recent article, “How to Care for Loved Ones from Miles Away” reminds us that you could suddenly be faced with the challenge of long-distance caregiving.
Institutional Facilities or Care at Home. In some instances, nursing homes and retirement homes appear to be the only options available for care. However, the elderly can suffer significant emotional trauma when leaving their long-time homes and familiar surroundings. Research has shown that they do better, when they stay in their homes and familiar communities with friends and neighbors.
Finding a Home Care Agency. They offer different levels of service, so you can select an agency that offers more than basic homemaker services. Eventually, your parent may need personal care services. The agency you select should be bonded, insured, and licensed (although not all states require home care licensing). Caregivers should be experienced and vetted with at least a basic criminal background check. You should meet with the caregiver, before you agree to services. It is also important to choose an agency that complies with HIPAA.
Affording the Care Required. Since home care services are non-medical, they aren’t covered by Medicare. Home care services are generally paid individually or by long-term care insurance (LTC).
One solution to covering these costs is a reverse mortgage, which lets your parent access funds from their home equity, without disturbing their income. In addition, eligible veterans and their spouses may qualify for the Disability Pension for Aid and Attendance. That program provides funds for in-home care.
If you are still undecided on whether a loved one needs care, consider these questions to help you make a decision:
Long-distance management of a parents care can be exhausting. Try to get help from other family members. If your parent is suffering from a specific illness like Alzheimer’s, ALS, or a stroke, contact the local association/support group.
You should also use the services of a care manager and an experienced elder law attorney. Most importantly, stay in touch with your loved one and his or her support group.
Reference: Flagstaff Business News (March 18, 2018) “How to Care for Loved Ones from Miles Away”
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